Today I ran until my legs burned and my lungs felt like they were on fire. But it wasn't enough to match the pain of my aching heart.
My mom met with the doctor today and our worst fears were confirmed. The cancer is growing rapidly and there is nothing left to do. The doctor prescribed every possible pain medication under the sun to help manage the horrible pain she is in. He said she has weeks, maybe months left.
And so I laced up my running shoes and ran.
My sister ate chocolate.
My brother played the piano.
We all have our different ways of coping with pain. Wouldn't it be nice if there was medication for heart ache?
When I got home I called my mom. As soon as she spoke I began to cry as I wondered how many more times I would hear her voice.
We both cried as we talked.
I am sad for me.
I am sad for my little brother and sister who are single.
But I weep for my dad.
Your thoughts and prayers are appreciated.
I have been keeping up with your blog for a while. I am so sorry to hear this. But please know that my prayers are with you and your family. And know that you Mom has touched many lives as has the rest of you family because of the wonderful person that she is.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry to hear that. I have been hoping that your mom was going to be a medical miracle for the next 20 years. We will continue to pray for your mom and your family. May you have months not weeks left with her.
ReplyDeleteI love you and your family. My heart aches for you too.
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry. Your news is heartbreaking. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry to hear that Melanie. I can't even imagine what you and your family must be feeling right now. We'll be sending thoughts and prayers your way!
ReplyDeleteOh, Mel, why, why, WHY? My heart is aching for you and your family. You have been through so much lately - I hope my little prayers will bring some measure of comfort because you all deserve it so much, especially your mom and dad.
ReplyDeleteWords can't even express. I'm SO sorry. We will be sending lots of prayers and positive thoughts your way. *hugs*
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry, Melanie. I know that heartache. I hope that your mom's pain gets under control...that's so hard in so many ways. My prayers are with you and your family....for many miracles in the weeks and months ahead to see you through. I love you!
ReplyDeleteOh Melanie . . . so sorry. Praying for your family!
ReplyDeleteUgg...my stomach hurts. We love you Mel...
ReplyDeleteWow, Mel, our thoughts and prayers to you and your family.
ReplyDeleteMel, your Mom and family remain in our prayers. My heart goes out to you.
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Melanie, I have been faithfully following your blog since I found it on Mollie's blog. You are amazing. I am so sorry to hear about your mom. My heart breaks for you. There is a quote that comes to mind when I think of you.
ReplyDeleteIt was said of heros
"... those held in highest esteem are those who mastered a hard lot with their heads held high"
You have choosen faith, and portrayed positivity. You hare heoric, and so is your mother.
You are in my prayers.
We love your family and miss you and the boys! We read your blog faithfully and are praying for your mom and dad! So sorry to hear that the news is not better but you are right the memories you have made this last year will be priceless! Just know we are thinking of you and praying for your family!
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I'm so sad and sorry.
ReplyDelete*Hugs and prayers across the world.
Melanie - I'm so sorry to hear about your mom...I hope you can find comfort and our thoughts and prayers are with you.
ReplyDeleteMelanie, I'm so sad to hear all of this. My love and hope are with you and your family, especially your mom.
ReplyDeleteThe extremes of emotions -- I just read your newest post and was laughing and smiling. Then I read about your mom. I am sad too. Keep running & lean on your friends who love you for support. Praying for miracles and peace....
ReplyDeleteI'm sooo sorry to hear the latest news on your Mom Melanie! My heart aches for you! You guys will remain in our prayers. I want your Mom to prove the medical field is wrong sometimes!!! Sooo glad you guys were able to be out there so recently!
ReplyDeleteMelanie, you and your family will continue to be in our thoughts and prayers. Your pictures and posts have been so touching. You really have a gift for reaching people's hearts.
ReplyDeleteoh, mel, i am so sorry. i wish i had a medication for heart ache to give you. you're mother is beautiful and her body has been fighting a good fight.
ReplyDeleteshe is still here, so do enjoy talking, laughing and crying together.
Dear Melanie! My heart is aching for you. My uncle Rick is in the very same position. His hospice nurse said he probably only has a few more weeks if that. I gave him a very long hug at Thanksgiving knowing it would probably be the last. I know your pain is even greater. There is nothing like a mother! You will be in our prayers. I stand in awe at your strength! I really do!
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